Dream 1: It is absurd to dream that the package outside the gift is a bodhisattva. Judging from the information you gave, maybe you subconsciously thought it was absurd to give gifts, so you had absurd feelings and dreams. And why is it a bodhisattva? Because you believe in Buddhism and Bodhisattva's compassion, and you stand on the opposite side (spiritually) with those in power, you highlight the absurdity of contrast, thus telling you that this matter is absurd. But of course, the actual situation is whether you should send it, no matter how ridiculous you think it is. ...
Dream 2: Dreaming that the child is playing in the toilet shows that your subconscious feels that the child is bound and the space for development is very narrow. Besides, the toilet is an unclean place. Your child eats poop, which means he shouldn't and can't eat. It seems to me that your subconscious is very dissatisfied with the child's current state. Because eating means growth, improper eating will affect growth, and what you are subconsciously worried about is actually the growth of your child. And why are there lotus seeds in the poop? I think you subconsciously think that although the current state is very bad, there is still a good side (maybe it is easier to contact in primary school? ), but overall, what you subconsciously think is bad has the absolute upper hand. ...
Dream 3: The wrong shoes are actually not matched and inappropriate. Just as in the past, it was said in politics that relations of production should be compatible with productivity, shoes are also used metaphorically. So wearing the wrong shoes is actually because you subconsciously think that the current education method is not suitable for the development needs of children, so you have such a dream.
Suggestion: From your description, these practices in this kindergarten really make people feel very cold. Children's innocent and lively personality, innovative spirit, courage, facing the test of failure and mental health are all damaged to some extent. I think as a parent, I naturally don't want my children to do this. Of course, I only judge by lz's words, which may not be accurate, but lz should analyze the pros and cons of this matter and consider it comprehensively. I believe the problem will be solved!
I hope my analysis can help you.