Will the child go to someone else's house next month? I don't know if there is such a saying in your hometown, but it is still a taboo. Expectant mothers are not allowed to visit casually after giving birth to their babies one month before confinement. So, can children under six go to other people's homes?
Can children go to other people's homes if they are under 1 one year old?
Regardless of the traditional concept, from a scientific point of view, confinement is not allowed to go out. Confinement is the time for maternal mothers to raise their bodies, and they can't walk around at will. You couldn't get out of bed at will before, let alone go out to visit! Now that the conditions have improved, some mothers will visit a building when they are bored, but it is not absolutely safe, so it is better for maternal mothers to stay at home and take care of themselves.
Of course, if there is an emergency that needs to be handled by my mother, there is no way to avoid it. Pay attention to keep warm, pay attention to time, walk the least with the fastest speed, and do everything well at once.
Is it taboo to visit a neighbor's friend's house in the second month?
It's normal to visit neighbors' friends' houses at ordinary times, but try not to visit neighbors' friends' houses after giving birth, especially in a more traditional way.
1, there is a traditional saying in our country that the anger of pregnant women will affect the luck of others, but these are superstitious statements and will not bring bad luck to others. However, since relatives and friends care about this, it is best for pregnant women not to find someone else to cut their own throat, which will affect their feelings with each other.
2. If pregnant women visit, it is forbidden to sit on the beds of relatives and friends. It is said that this will bring bad luck to the host family. Of course, this is also a superstitious statement. It is good for a mother to know herself. Walk to the door, but don't sit on someone else's bed.
3. If the neighbors and friends don't care about these superstitious taboos, then the mother can come to the door casually, but pay attention to the warmth on the road, don't blow, and pay attention to the distance from the door, not too far. The mother is too tired to help the wound recover.
4. When the parturient visits, it is best not to eat the food of the neighbor's friend's house. Maternal food is soft and easy to digest, but ordinary food usually does not do this, nor is it as light as a moon meal. More attention should be paid to not drinking drinks and eating cold dishes.
Mothers' discussion on the topic of childbirth.
1, just stay at home after confinement, so the safety factor is still relatively high. If you feel bored, you can invite your neighbors and friends to play at home, which is also quite good.
2. If the mother is bored, she can go out to visit, but it is best to be a neighbor on the same floor, so the possibility of catching a cold is very small. If the baby needs to find a mother, she can go home to take care of the baby in time.
3, it is better not to visit, it is already a luxury to wash your hair during the month, and you still want to go out to visit? Doesn't that ruin your health?
Will the child go to someone else's house at the end of the month? There is such a saying in my hometown, and it seems that everyone firmly remembers it and everyone abides by it. I didn't know it before, but I didn't know anything until I heard from my elders.
I don't know if it's superstition. This happened when mother Zhang was promoted to the mother of two children some time ago. Because the eldest son is only three years old, she is very naughty. Today, it happened that her second child was locked up for 28 days. Because her family has something to do, it's almost noon, and her son is still playing at the neighbor's house. She shouldn't have shouted a few times. She thought, what is this? It's time for lunch, but she hasn't come back yet. Mother Zhang waited anxiously, thinking, I will go to the neighbor's door and shout and not come into the house. But what she doesn't know is that this is not allowed.
The neighbor refused, saying that going out before the full moon would bring fire to our house. Finally, under the coordination of both parties, firecrackers were set off to ward off evil spirits.
I was also confined at that time, and my family told me not to walk around during confinement, especially not to go to other people's homes, otherwise others would not want to, which would bring disaster to themselves.
There are many similar things, some of which are unreasonable and serious. Therefore, in rural areas, it is absolutely not allowed to go out without a full moon.
It seems that a mother without a full moon is still bloody and cannot bring good luck to others. She has to go back to her parents' home to visit relatives after the full moon before she can visit everywhere.