It seems that I have finished the positive significance of patting people on the shoulder. In fact, patting people on the shoulder is a big taboo! If we don't treat it lightly, it will lead to a dispute between words and tongues, which will lead to a disaster of life.
1, it is forbidden for subordinates to take pictures of their superiors and for schoolmates to take pictures of their elders.
This harvest is more of disgust and disgust. A pat on the shoulder is an intimate act. When he has a sense of distance from you, it is difficult for you to accomplish many things.
A friend of Chen Peng's dream interpretation once said that a subordinate of a company, who was not very close to him at ordinary times, suddenly patted himself on the shoulder one day, and he had the impulse to knock him to the ground and criticize him. A friend said that this action of his subordinates made him feel disrespectful and humiliated, and he was particularly angry.
2. Don't pat shoulders between people who are not familiar with each other.
Some people are familiar with others and think that others are just like themselves. They met once or twice and became friends and acquaintances.
This is also a story. When I was working in Shenzhen, I had a new colleague from Quanzhou, Fujian. He was from Fujian. Therefore, he is particularly enthusiastic about all his colleagues in Fujian, followed by patting his shoulders. Finally, a colleague from Fuzhou broke out. He angrily condemned the new colleague. Please give me some respect! Don't always touch it.
Generally speaking, if you are not particularly familiar with it, putting your hand on the other person's shoulder is an invasion of private space and very uncomfortable. In this case, I believe that most people have experienced similar experiences, and anyone can name a few people who are not so accepted but like to pat themselves on the shoulder.
3, taboo when people do not pay attention to people's shoulders.
According to folk numerology, people have three lights and two lights on their shoulders. If they pat each other on the shoulder in a frightening way, it is easy to put out the two lights. For the parties, the damage is not ordinary.
The light fortune is ruined, for example, when the parties are playing cards, mahjong, settling accounts, and talking about business, they are most afraid of being suddenly patted on the shoulder. Because the moment when a person is suddenly patted on the shoulder, people will be in a trance for that moment.
Therefore, some thieves often steal other people's property by patting them on the shoulder. In many local customs, it is particularly taboo to be patted on the shoulder by others, especially businessmen.
In other words, he fell asleep for a few days, and his condition worsened and even died. You think what would happen if you walked behind a man who was walking at night and suddenly patted him on the shoulder. If you sit behind the driver who is concentrating on driving and suddenly pat the driver on the shoulder, it is easy to cause a car accident.
How miserable it is for you to pat others on the shoulder when they are doing dangerous things (such as cutting vegetables and turning on machine tools)! Some people especially like to pat others on the shoulder when they are sitting in chairs or high places, causing the parties to fall, climb over the railing, or fall directly.
In 2008, a waitress in Nanjing was slapped by a colleague and scared to death. On August 24th, 2008, Nanjing Morning Post reported that a man who was also a waiter in a restaurant suddenly patted the girl on the shoulder from behind.
The girl turned pale with fear. After being patted on the shoulder, the girl looked trance, her face never improved, and her body always trembled. The other girls just let the girl have a rest. But just as they were helping the girl leave the hall, the girl suddenly fell to the ground. The foreman said that when the girl was found unconscious, they immediately sent her to the nearby Second Affiliated Hospital of Southern Medical University for rescue.
Arriving at the hospital, the girl woke up from a coma after being rescued by a doctor. The doctor said that the girl was in a coma because of shock. We know that some people who are in poor health, especially those with bad hearts, are most afraid of sudden attacks from behind. Any sudden impact may have serious consequences.