In order to understand your mother's dream, I referred to an article by Wu Zhihong, a psychological columnist of Guangzhou Daily: > Link: A harmonious relationship is bound to be rewarding and rewarding. You give me material and spiritual love, I accept it. I give you more material and spiritual love, you accept it gladly, and then give me more in return ... If this cycle of giving and receiving is broken, the relationship will develop in a bad direction immediately.
Moreover, unlike what we imagined, the cycle of giving and receiving in a love relationship is destroyed, often not because we are unwilling to give, but because we are unwilling to accept. The reason why we are unwilling to accept it is not as big as we thought. On the contrary, it is because we are unwilling to bear the guilt.
And only those who don't accept it will feel innocent and feel that they have an absolute conscience in this relationship. This is a very comfortable feeling, and people with this feeling will feel that they are always right in the relationship.
Then, correspondingly, the other side of the relationship will feel uncomfortable, feel guilty frequently, and feel guilty often. Even if he doesn't understand why the giver likes giving so much, he will eventually have the impulse to escape. Once he really made a move to escape, he always thought that his innocent giver would feel great harm and would fiercely accuse the escapee of betrayal, but he did not know that he was the initiator of this relationship.
I believe that the discord between your mother and your grandmother is a typical mother-in-law relationship. The root of its existence is that they are fighting for their father who loves you. As you can imagine, your grandmother raised your father, and she paid infinite love for your father. After her mother married your father, she won the love of your grandmother for nothing. Because of this psychological factor, your mother and grandmother have many differences in life. And your mother, I believe, is a soft-hearted person. In order to straighten out the relationship with your grandmother, she has paid many times, but your grandmother may be stubborn about these things and has been unwilling to accept your mother's efforts.
As a result, your mother verbally said that even if your grandmother died, she would not cry. But she cried in her dream, which is a way of venting her subconscious.
She vented in her dream. Although she doesn't agree with your grandmother in daily life, she still loves your grandmother subconsciously and is willing to pay the price for straightening out the relationship between them. The subconscious reflects the essence of human beings and is the foundation of human beings. There are too many hypocritical things in reality, so this dream is about your mother loving your grandmother and this family.
In the dream, "people are talking there", but this "person" is actually questioning himself. The dream is:-vague.
Don't take dreams seriously. For reference.
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Second, what are the signs of dreaming of grandma's death?
Dream interpretation should be combined with the real situation. According to the traditional dream interpretation method in China, dreaming of the death of a healthy relative means that the relative will live longer.
If a relative is seriously ill or you are very worried about losing someone, dreaming of this person's death may indicate a kind of worry and anxiety, but I don't think it is excluded that some people with very keen sixth sense may also have premonitory dreams. From the perspective of western dream interpretation, Freud once pointed out that it is very sad to dream of the death of relatives and friends, which is often the reappearance of children's desire to hate relatives and hope that relatives and friends will die because of an event, but I personally think this explanation is not universal.
In addition, dreaming of the death of a loved one may also symbolize that a person's heart is becoming indifferent or depressed. Because you don't understand your reality, please judge what kind of explanation you should belong to according to your own situation.
Third, I dreamed that my grandmother was dead.
This dream shows that you miss your grandmother very much, and your grandmother is very reluctant to part with you, so it appears in your dream.
Your dream of your pale grandmother implies that you know that grandma has lost her vitality. When you said you wanted to buy her a cake, you just wanted to be filial to your grandmother.
I suggest you miss the days when grandma lived with her family, ordinary and happy. If your grandmother didn't say anything in her dream, it means that she lived well in the other world, lacking nothing and nothing.
Suggestion: write a letter to grandma and put it in a fixed place in front of the grave so as not to let the wind blow it away. See if it is still there at noon the next day (12 noon), or if there is anything strange on the letter (such as a hair or a branch). If so, you should pay attention to it in the days when you dream about your grandmother (for example, in your dream, your grandmother wants you). If there is nothing unusual, or the stationery is missing, it means that you are too close to your grandmother and didn't dream about her, but you should still pay attention to whether she told you anything meaningful in the dream and gave you any hints.
If I say anything to you, go and burn paper for grandma and tell her what you think. If not, it means she's fine.
Just give a blessing.