A red umbrella is a way to keep out the darkness. Red symbolizes enthusiasm and enthusiasm, and you cover up the truth of your inner feelings with the illusion of enthusiasm and enthusiasm.
The content of the dream is probably:
He has some other requirements for you, which puts you in trouble and your communication is in an invalid state. You don't think his ideal you are the real you, but you have found some ways to meet his requirements.
But the heart is contradictory and lonely.
The fundamental solution is a frank communication, and it is not the best way to change yourself blindly.