There is also your personality problem, such as whether you all have stubborn habits. If you are too stubborn, there will be contradictions and you can't be too good to each other, so that the other party will be very unhappy and angry with you. You can't have both extremes. Have you ever been unfilial to your parents before? You should repent and often be unfilial to your parents. The object you are looking for will be bad for you. Because your aura matches this aura. It is easy to conflict. Only by taking the golden mean can we do it.
Good luck.
How to solve the problem of unsatisfactory marriage first, and choose the wedding date.
With the accumulation of more and more experience, I have a good understanding of the judgment of the wedding date, and the probability can reach more than 75%. To put it bluntly, judging the wedding date is very simple, that is, when the eight characters are in place, this person can get money as an official (men get money, women get money), but there are also mistakes. I tried to find out the reasons for my mistakes in many ways, and finally found an interesting phenomenon from many cases of unsatisfactory marriage: some marriages were unsatisfactory, and some just got married in the unfavorable year of avoiding god. For example, men are jealous of money, and women are jealous of officials. Most of them are doomed love, most of them marry an inappropriate person at an inappropriate time, and the final result is naturally bad. Therefore, before young men and women get married, it is best to choose a suitable wedding date and try to choose a period that is beneficial to both sides. For example, in the year of the eight-character god's reign, it happened that this person was proud of the spring breeze. Getting married at this time, this person has a good heart and mind, which is bound to be the icing on the cake. If in the year when the eight characters are taboo, it is precisely when this person is physically and mentally exhausted and has many troubles, it is not appropriate to get married at this time. For example, men avoid money all their lives and get married in a prosperous year. In the eight characters, money represents father, wife, woman or money. Money is jealous of money, and Bing Xu represents bad luck. This is also the reason why some people get married after losing their father or getting injured this year, or get married but lose money. Just think, getting married is a great event in one's life. Most people attach great importance to it and will choose to hold a grand wedding. If you just broke the bank, or are in bad luck or physical illness, getting married with debt or illness will naturally leave a shadow on your later life, resulting in the final bad results.
Second, choose a spouse to get married.
A person who is not married is particularly unlucky. When he is married, he will meet many different types of the opposite sex. Marriage pays attention to fate. To put it bluntly, it is whether both parties can find common ground in their respective preferences. For example, a jealous female character who is cruel to officials is full of affection and romance. If she meets a man who is equally prosperous, she may be like-minded and fall in love at first sight. If a mouse meets a monkey. Because this man is full of golden water, he is naturally a romantic and affectionate floating elf. As a bosom friend, he can appreciate each other, but as a husband and wife who have been together for a long time, it is not necessarily appropriate. On the contrary, if a jealous and prosperous woman meets a rich man, he is stubborn and ignorant of amorous feelings, but he is loyal and reliable, which can provide a broad shoulder and harbor for an affectionate little woman. Water is surrounded by thick soil, which can't be flooded, and the soil is soaked by soft water, which brings out the best in each other and can reach the whole country.
Men who have the same hard life and can bear it, the iron colander and the copper spoon are in the same pot, restraining each other and complementing each other, and neither side will be damaged. Therefore, it is very necessary for the constellation with unsatisfactory marriage to choose a spouse to get married.
Third, accumulate virtue and do good deeds, which is beneficial to marriage.
I once met a woman. This man's life hurt the official blade, and the eight characters collided. At first glance, the marriage is not smooth, but in fact, this person and her husband have a good relationship and a happy marriage. It turns out that this man is a doctor in obstetrics and gynecology. He has delivered babies countless times, and he has a good heart and numerous virtues. Coupled with the knife delivery, it virtually solved the cruelty of the injured official and the blade, and was blessed by God, so it was possible to get a good marriage. If you can do good to outsiders at ordinary times, you will naturally be good to the people around you. In the long run, if we cultivate our own self-cultivation, both sides can care about and understand each other, and the unhappy marriage will be stable.
Fourth, take the initiative to be honest.
If your life has been calculated, you will know the unfavorable trend and unfavorable year of your marriage in advance. Wealth represents money or women in men's horoscope. If you are afraid of hurting your wife, you can take the initiative to break the money, such as donating money to charity, buying real estate and buying items that you were reluctant to give up before. That is to say, in the year of financial ruin, if one side of financial representative breaks out artificially in advance, the disaster on the other side of financial representative can be resolved and reduced. This is what is usually called the principle of breaking money and avoiding disasters.
Fifth, appropriate separation.
Generally speaking, the sun and moon branches collide with each other, especially the official stars (wealth stars) and spouse's palace, which makes marriage difficult. However, I have encountered several exceptions, and the feedback said that the relationship between husband and wife has always been very good, and they have never quarreled. It turns out that the husband and wife are separated. The husband earns money in other places for work reasons, and the wife looks after the children at home, and goes home once a month on average. Usually, they pour out their thoughts at intervals. Therefore, it can be inferred that the closer a couple is, the greater their sexual desire will be. If they can be separated for a period of time in a bad time, they will have a bad time ... >>
How to solve the problem of unsatisfactory marriage from the perspective of numerology. In the past two years, I have seen many people with unsatisfactory marriage feelings, and I have also adjusted and improved many friends with unsatisfactory feelings through the method of numerology and geomantic omen. In this process, I deeply realized many pains and troubles brought by bad feelings. Although according to the analysis of Buddhism and numerology, these are causal or predestined, but modern numerology is to improve fate through these and make adjustments. Even according to religion, we don't have to bear all the fate silently, because the Buddhist scriptures say: ordinary people fear fruit, bodhisattvas fear cause. Even if we can't completely change our life, we can change tomorrow's life through our own benefits for the future. The main forms of marital unhappiness are as follows (the possible form in brackets is eight characters): 1, which has been neglected for a long time (the couple's feelings are weak, the peach blossoms are weak, and four or three words are dry). 2. Meet the right person at the wrong time, or meet the wrong person at the right time (there are many yin and yang mistakes, and there are other forms). 3, the relationship between the two sides is very good, but there are violent conflicts between relatives, friends or family members (in general, most of them are single next month). 4. I tried very hard to get married, but the other party let me down (couples' palace or couples' stars are mostly jealous). 5. I finally became a family, but the other party left me because of accidents or trivial matters (the husband and wife palace failed or was merged). 6, couples get together (men have orphans and women are widowed). 7. Like people you shouldn't like or be pursued and recognized by people you shouldn't like (most of them are fighting for couples or splitting wives). 8. Sometimes being liked by many people dazzles me and I don't know which is better. It is best to get nothing (female officials are mixed up, or the eight characters compete with Japan). 9. Women's life is too strong or men's life is too delicate and feminine, which leads to family disharmony (women's life is Gai Hua, Kui Gang or Chunyang, men's life is pure yin, not absolute). Principles and methods to solve the above marriage problems: 1, don't complain, because all kinds of fruits today are caused by yesterday, so you can't continue to plant the seeds of resentment and complaints, but you should improve your mood and pay more for others. If you want to transfer, you should change your mind first. With a grateful attitude every day, I don't always care about what I lost or didn't get, but appreciate what I got and didn't lose. 2, try to get married late, many feelings can be solved through late marriage. Never get married for the sake of marriage, and never get married with a game mentality. 3. Several principles for dissolution of marriage in the process of mate selection: (1) The female is older than the male; (2) Both parties have distant places of birth or residence; (3) Men are more than 8 years older than women; (4) Have more children (this is not in line with the current national family planning policy, but after a large number of eight-character examples, many unhappy marriages can solve the divorce problem if they have children in the marriage crisis year); 4. Promote peach blossom through geomantic omen or adjust the relationship between husband and wife. 5. Believe in religion.
This is not only your fault, you don't work hard, you are immoral, but you are destined, which can be seen from the date of birth. For example, those born on the wrong day, those born on the sheep's blade day, those born on Quidditch day, those born on the same day, those born on the moon, those born on the wedding day, and so on. In addition, the male fortune star is not present or fails; Wealth stars are subject to weakness, female officials are absent or frustrated, and officials are subject to weakness; Male life is pure yin, female life is pure yang, double peach blossom or peach blossom outside the wall, and so on. These are also obvious signs of unsatisfactory marriage and love. It is not one person's fault that marriage and love are not smooth, and it needs to be extended to two people's eight-character marriage. If the two characters are not consistent, such as the poor foundation of the annual column, the deep affection of the monthly column, the influence of the daily column on the wedding palace, the different development of the annual column and so on. Coupled with the conflict between marriage and luck, the unfavorable time is also an important reason for the unsatisfactory marriage and love. Bad marriage and love are not just destiny takes a hand. Some bad geomantic omen, such as bad house, unsuitable bed, wrong color and accessories, will also affect marriage and love, leading to emotional frustration, late marriage and late love, marital discord, breakup and divorce, and so on. The above-mentioned signs of unsatisfactory marriage and love are obvious in the discharged horoscope. Even people who don't understand numerology can see through comparison that as long as they touch one or several of them, it already shows that there is something wrong with marriage and love. In fact, it is very difficult to completely "dissolve" or "change" the original face. Only through the adjustment of seeking good fortune and avoiding evil can the degree of adversity be alleviated or improved. The first is to cultivate temper and character. For example, Kui Gang, who lives under the blade of a sheep's blade, or a person who is born with seven kills, is generally strong in character, grumpy and impulsive, and may even hurt feelings and affect marriage. In fact, they know this situation best, mainly by strengthening their cultural cultivation, self-discipline, getting rid of their bad temper, learning to put themselves in their own shoes and being tolerant when they are pregnant, which is conducive to marriage and love. In fact, any external adjustment method is to adjust the mentality. If you have a correct view of love and a good attitude, you can easily deal with the problems encountered in marriage and make yourself happy. The second is to curb peach blossom promiscuity. For example, people who hit the peach blossom flood, although they have a good heterosexual relationship and many suitors, often have a good flower and a good girl who is not worried about getting married, but they are not devoted to love, vacillating, stepping on multiple boats, and eventually become elderly saints. People who hit the peach blossom flood should concentrate on love first because of fear, and at the same time carry out targeted suppression according to the five elements of peach blossom. For example, if the peach blossom is water, you should wear or use some jade or ceramic ornaments; If peach blossoms are made of wood, wear or use some metal ornaments; If peach blossoms are fire, wear or use some crystal or aquatic ornaments; If the peach blossom is earth, wear or use some wooden ornaments; If the peach blossom is golden, the wearer should use some photoelectric ornaments and the like to curb the excessive momentum of the peach blossom and make it develop in a direction conducive to marriage and love. The third is to make up for the vacancy of love. The so-called love vacancy refers to the fact that men have no money or wealth and die in the stars, while women have no officials or officials and die in the moon (the month is the monthly branch). Although these financial officials are more beneficial to wealth or career, they are definitely unfavorable to feelings. Besides, if financial officials can't use it, the situation will be even worse. The remedy is to start with the five elements. If the financial officer is water, it is necessary to strengthen the water potential, wear crystals or set up water containers; If the financial officer is wood, it is necessary to strengthen the wood spirit, wear wood ornaments or plant flowers and plants; If the financial officer is a fire, strengthen the fire and wear photoelectric ornaments or bright pink lights; If the financial officer is soil, he should strengthen the soil, wear jade ceramics or put stones and jade products; If the shopkeeper is gold, it is necessary to strengthen Dolly, wear metal ornaments or use metal utensils to increase the wealth of the shopkeeper and make it beneficial to marriage and love. The fourth is to adjust marriage. Even if you have a good eight-character marriage, if you choose a spouse improperly, it will cause discord between husband and wife and affect marriage and love. This requires adjusting marriage. First of all, we should adjust the zodiac signs, and choose the zodiac signs that are consistent or coexist as much as possible to avoid the zodiac signs colliding with each other or punishing each other. Secondly, we should adjust our marriage and try to choose people with the same personality or basically the same marriage luck. This is also an extremely important aspect to avoid unsatisfactory marriage and love, and it cannot be taken lightly. Because marriage and love are, after all, two people's things, which need to be coordinated and inclusive. Only people with similar interests, harmonious personality and happy marriage are the most secure happiness. The fifth is to adjust the layout of Feng Shui. In love and marriage, besides the fate of the eight characters and the fleeting factors of marriage, Feng Shui gas field also plays a considerable role, and sometimes the good or bad role of Feng Shui gas field can even surpass the role of fate and marriage. 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In this world, the methods and principles of how to solve the unsatisfactory marriage are the same, whether it is to seek husband and wife love and family happiness or to seek a good marriage. There are many successful examples on the Internet. You can search for it yourself. Just search for keywords such as "reading classics to promote marriage", "reading Buddha to promote marriage", "releasing people to promote marriage" and "promoting marriage". It is true that a yogi does not tell lies. Here are a few examples for your reference. (In order to be able to publish, some content with links has been deleted. )
Personals together.
In the case of marriage induction (1), no wife can ask Guanyin.
Text: Miao Yin Lyman.
The biggest worry of contemporary young people is how to find a suitable partner. My master told me in 1997 that I should give the task of finding a wife to avalokitesvara. To tell the truth, I dare not ask Guanyin Bodhisattva for my own benefit, except when I am in dire straits. However, with the growth of age, the troubles of finding a partner also follow. My horoscope has a strong message that marriage is not going well, so I have been worried for many years.
After several emotional setbacks, I was originally poor and charitable. By 200 1, I am 27 years old, with only 8,000 yuan in my pocket (I need at least100000 to get a wife here), and I am often ill. My emotional torture, lack of money and incurable disease forced me to have the cheek to ask avalokitesvara and apply the principles and methods of transforming fate in Buddhism to change.
So, I changed Master Yin Guang's request for my son to a wife, vowed to do a thousand good deeds, read popular books three times a day, and worship Bodhisattva forty-nine times, and always kept the immoral precept of not doing it, urging my mother to read Buddha and survive in the West. I ask the Bodhisattva to give my wife the standard of 1, to honor my mother, to support me to learn Buddhism, to make up for my economy, and to help my future.
After half a year, the induction came. My mother went to draw lots at the beginning of the fifth lunar month, and the result was that she could get married after the fall. But I wasn't dating anyone then. My mother was very surprised. She went to draw another constellation in late May of the lunar calendar. This sign is even more terrible. It is said that June 19 of the lunar calendar is a lucky day for avalokitesvara to get married. I don't believe this marriage at all because it was arranged by avalokitesvara. I still don't have a date. There are only 20 days before June 19, and even then, it took about a year to fall in love. How can I possibly hear that I can get married in more than ten days, let alone an intellectual? But how did this person know that I was asking for Guanyin? I wonder in my heart!
A few days later, a friend introduced me, but I couldn't say it. I didn't want to see it at first, but my friend was so enthusiastic that I had to see it. When we met, my wife looked a little dark because of the dark light in the coffee shop. On the whole, I feel sick and don't want to continue. At that time, I really couldn't see what my wife looked like. First of all, the light is very dark. Second, I only looked at it once or twice. But at noon the next day, I had a dream when I was sleeping. I dreamed that my wife smiled at me and woke me up. I complained to myself, "That's it." Because in my dream, she was clearer than I saw in reality, that is, the day before yesterday, the clothes I wore were exactly the same as a dress in her closet (I didn't know what she looked like before, let alone what the clothes were like).
Later, when we met again, I realized that my wife was beautiful, but I couldn't see it clearly that day. On June 18, I met my wife's parents (according to the custom, when I met her parents, my marriage was half done), and the timing was so accurate that I was really shocked. After marriage, all five criteria for seeking bodhisattva have been met. My wife is virtuous and filial to my mother, not only supporting me to learn Buddhism, but also following me. She has helped me a lot financially and given me a lot of support in my future.
Suggestion: Your wife is your lifelong companion, which directly affects your life trajectory. It is still very important to find a like-minded wife, so please ask the Bodhisattva to bless you. Looking for a wife based on the Indian owner's search for a child seems to have a good effect. You might as well give it a try, because everyone says it's inspiring to find children.
Marriage induction case (2) I don't want to be born on the same day of the same year, but I hope to be born on the same day of the same year.
Zhijing's brother's successful husband-seeking experiment
I very much agree with your brothers' views and successfully conducted an experiment eight years ago:
At the beginning of 1996, I figured out the truth of asking Buddha and Bodhisattva to find a spouse for myself, and then I figured out that I should find someone who suits me instead of the public standard. So I thoroughly analyzed my own situation and set such criteria for choosing a spouse: kindness, integrity, good at housework, humor, and natural happiness ...
How to resolve the unsatisfactory marriage in modern society? Information is open and developed, and the relationship between husband and wife is increasingly unstable. Some people get married for a few years, then start to divorce, or fall into the endless cold war. Everyone is discussing how to effectively improve the relationship between husband and wife. Many people have studied it from the perspectives of sociology, psychology, marriage and even law, and put forward their own rational views. However, for such a rapidly "progressive" society, these views have not only failed to improve the status quo of unstable marriage, but also prompted men and women to have their own "views" on marriage, which is even more unstable. In order to improve the marital status and the relationship between husband and wife, numerology and geomantic omen are also very important. Sometimes, adjusting marriage feelings from the perspective of numerology and geomantic omen can achieve miraculous effects. On the one hand, after thousands of years of repeated practice and verification, I don't need to rap here. Let's talk about the specific methods to improve the relationship between husband and wife from the perspective of numerology. First of all, we should check whether there are feng shui taboos in your husband and wife's room. If the bedroom is fierce (easy to attract peach blossoms, easy for a third party to intervene), the mirror is facing the bed (easy to cause haggle and tension in husband and wife's life), the husband and wife room is too small and too big (too small will lead to narrow-minded husband and wife, and too large room will lead to weak feelings between husband and wife), the light in the husband and wife room is too dark (easy to lead to confusion of husband and wife's relationship and mutual suspicion), and the wires outside the husband and wife room are chaotic (easy to lead to subtle relationship and cranky thoughts). Sometimes living in one room feels that marriage is not going well. It is better to live in another room, which may improve. Then look back on the fate of both husband and wife. I'm married, there's no need to get married again. It's too late to get married After marriage, we mainly look at the form of marital palace and the influence of auspicious year on marital palace and spouse star. Once there is a phenomenon of "moving marriage" between the two parties, it may lead to tension between husband and wife and even divorce. First of all, look at whether the marital palace of husband and wife is rushed and whether they punish each other. For example, in the male horoscope, the Japanese branch is Hai, and in the female horoscope, the Japanese branch is Si, which is called the marriage palace. Men are ugly every day, and women are ugly every day. It's called marriage castration. Marriage palace punishes each other, which generally means that there is no external reason. That is, husband and wife are irrational and can't handle their feelings correctly, and even the tension between husband and wife is caused by family chores. This problem is actually very easy to solve. If we realize this problem, we can avoid ourselves and improve the relationship between husband and wife. If both husband and wife are punished by other places in their marriage houses, such as the monthly branch and the local branch, they will be at odds or even divorced because of other external factors. In this case, the relationship between punishment and impulsion can be solved by resolving the five elements of the zodiac, such as the monthly branch is Mao, the daily branch is unitary, and the combination of Mao can solve the impulsion of Mao ... For those who understand the five elements, the reason is self-evident. Friends who don't understand the numerology of the five elements must ask experts for help, and don't use this method casually, so as not to be counterproductive. If the spouses of husband and wife are combined and bound, the relationship between husband and wife will be tense due to external factors. That is to say, male fortune stars are robbed or tied with other cadres in the eight characters, while female fortune stars are robbed or tied with other cadres in the eight characters, and there is fear that their spouses will be taken away by others. It is understandable that this situation is combined with the five elements. Universiade and fleeting time arouse the marriage palace or spouse star through four methods: combination, conflict, punishment and injury. If both husband and wife had this motive in that year, it means that what happened will affect the marital feelings of husband and wife. In this case, it is better to be careful. According to the specific combination form, the five elements can be analyzed by the principle of combined punching. In addition, both husband and wife should understand the marital problems they faced in those years, so that both sides will pay attention to not doing anything to ignite the contradictions between husband and wife, let alone adding contradictions between husband and wife. The tension between husband and wife caused by this new year's luck, the most important thing is to race against time. Generally, after that year or that stage, everything will be fine. Through the change of feng shui environment and the dissolution of the eight characters and five elements, it will certainly be of great benefit to improve the relationship between husband and wife.
Generally speaking, there are four ways to solve the unsatisfactory marriage: older unmarried, fighting between husband and wife, peach blossom divorce, and spouse casualties. What is your specific situation, and your birthday likes and dislikes, etc. I don't even know. So I can't give you a detailed answer.
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Find a solution to the unsatisfactory marriage (with longevity 12). Immortality: Just like a person is born in the world, or in the birth stage, it refers to the time when everything germinates. Like the sun at 3-5 am. Such as the day of birth, full of hope and infinite future. Immortality: See the sea in one day. See you at noon the next day. See you on the third day. See you every day. See you tomorrow. I see it every day. See you tomorrow. See you tomorrow morning. See you tomorrow. See you tomorrow. Zainian Zhu: His life span is longer than that of a down-to-earth family. In the moon column: deep affection. Zairizhu: This is a happy and lucky life. In the column: children must have virtuous and filial people, and at the same time have great development in the future, fame and fortune; Fuyuan can get filial piety from his children. Dragon birthday: Bing Yin Day. Ding Youri. Wuyin Day. Have a nice day. Ren Shenri. Guimao Day. Generally speaking, this is a peaceful and auspicious fate. Lack of positive attitude, easy to lose opportunities and difficult to get leadership; Tutor is preferred. This person is harmonious and happy, and his popularity is good; There is brotherly affection between people, brothers and friends can live in harmony, and parents have deep feelings. Gentle personality, less unreasonable. Every year, luck rushes, and geese pluck their hair. Male life: more wives help, more development after middle age; But we should prevent wives and concubines from having external feelings because they are tempted. Female life: more cheerful, delicate and pretty, beautiful, and more family happiness in life.
First of all, what are the difficulties in your marriage?
Secondly, what caused this frustration;
Third, find a feasible way to eliminate the factors that cause this discomfort;
Finally, gradually realize this method.
Note: The road you find must be under your control. For example, the factor you are looking for is your wife's nagging, and your solution can't be that your wife doesn't nag, because this is beyond your control; You have to keep asking yourself: what makes your wife nag? Is it boring? My wife and mother also love to nag, which is a habit that my wife develops the day after tomorrow. Bored, because there is nothing to do? So do what, you know; Women inherit motherhood, and there is little chance of change. If you can't stand it, find a new one.
Sometimes couples need to be tolerant when they are together. It makes sense and unreasonable to be tolerant of each other. Tolerance is forbearance. In fact, you are forbearing her. Why doesn't she put up with you anymore?
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