1 You will be blamed by people close to you for the mistakes you have made recently or in the near future. You must accept it humbly! We should learn to care from scolding! This is very important!
You pay too much attention to the surface, depending on the essence! Sometimes others criticize you and actually help you, and sometimes others sympathize with you and actually feel glad! Time is the standard for testing loyalty, and practice is the standard for testing truth. Don't look at what he says now, the key is what he does!
You sometimes feel lonely and helpless! At the same time, you are also a very individualistic person. Don't be spoiled like flowers in the greenhouse. Nothing is smooth sailing. Learn to be tolerant and grateful! Especially for people close to you! Because only they can really help you!
Everyone should distinguish the relationship between everyone around him and his enemies, friends and me. In the face of interests or rules, former enemies will become friends and friends will become enemies. There are eternal interests, but no eternal friends. People who have conflicts of interest with you are your enemies. It's your own people who share your interests! To see through the essence of the problem, we must give up extravagant hopes, feelings and emotions, don't believe in promises, and only stick to what we are sure to get. It is because people's eyes are blinded by extravagant hopes, feelings, emotions and commitments that the relationship between friends and enemies is not clearly defined. In fact, what people can get is only what people are sure to get.
I hope I can help you!